How to Plan the Perfect Date for Every Sign of the Zodiac

As the first members of the zodiac, Aries are constantly searching for new adventures, thrills, and perhaps a bit of danger. This adrenaline junkie needs some excitement every now and again to feel balanced — a desire that applies to their personal, professional, and romantic lives. Give your favorite ram a V-Day they won’t forget by ditching traditional outings, such as candlelight dinners or a night of dancing, in favor of a more extreme activity.

Indoor skydiving, rock climbing, and go-karting are great ways to get your hearts pumping, putting a sparkle in your partner’s eye whenever they look in your direction. Aim for an activity they haven’t tried before, appealing to the explorative nature of your fiery companion. After you’ve worked up an appetite, be sure to scope out a restaurant neither of you have tried before, complete with exotic dishes and an exceptional cocktail menu.

While impeccable taste and a penchant for the finer things in life often give Taureans a reputation for being a tad materialistic, this sign is a child of the earth at its core. Nature acts as nectar for their soul, bringing forth a sense of peace and contentment whenever they’re immersed in the great outdoors. However, that doesn’t mean you can get away with roughing it on Valentine’s Day, as this Venus-ruled sign has high standards for romance, luxury, and comfort.

Touch upon the earthy spirit of your favorite bull while providing the creature comforts they so adore by curating an extravagant picnic. Choose a spot based on their outdoorsy preferences, arranging a hike, lakeside view, or turning your backyard into a wonderland complete with twinkling lights and cozy blankets. Just remember that the quality of your food and presentation will be under high scrutiny, so remember to put some extra effort into packing your picnic basket.

Geminis are all about connecting with others, acting as some of the most social and outgoing members of the zodiac. Though they’re happy enough to sit around and chat for hours with their sweetheart, finding playful activities to bond over is the ultimate way to unlock this air sign’s heart. Whisking your beloved away for a day trip will bring butterflies to their stomach, combining the excitement of adventure with the thrill of love.

Find a town a few hours away, then load up the car for a day of fun. Add a twist to your excursion by ordering each other’s lunch, picking out clothes for each other, or buying then swapping books as you explore small shops and unknown corners. Little games throughout the day will show that you’re invested in keeping your companion entertained, so be sure to carry a deck of cards, begin sentences with “I spy,” or challenge each other with a good ol’ fashioned game of truth or dare.

Though crabs are typically happy to spend the evening cuddled up at home, Valentine’s Day is meant to elevate your standard date night. Give your sweetie the homeyness they crave while still showing them a good time by exploring a historic house. Your favorite Cancer will delight in seeing how locals lived years ago, painting pictures in their mind of happy families assembled around the dinner table and roaring fires on winter nights.

Top off the evening with a simple dinner nearby, prioritizing a quiet and moody ambience over high-energy foodie hot spots. Just remember to make reservations in advance, as this sensitive sign can sometimes get a little hangry. On your way home, surprise them with a trip to the hardware or department store, picking up the bill on any supplies they need for their latest DIY project.

As a sun-ruled sign, Leos are warm, vibrant, creative, and full of joy. This member of the zodiac responds well to unique and thoughtful date ideas, relishing in the fact that their partner went above and beyond to plan an outing that’s as one of a kind as they are.

Show your lion how much they mean to you by arranging a private class together, giving them an opportunity to showcase how talented they are while embracing new experiences as a team. Whether you’re hoping to sharpen your skills as a chef, pick up a paintbrush, or put on your dancing shoes, taking your little lion along for the ride will provide them with a date they won’t soon forget.

Virgos are some of the most efficient and organized members of the zodiac, going above and beyond to make sure their business is handled on any given day. While these qualities can pave the way toward success, they can also lead to tension, worry, and excessive stress.

Provide your sweetie with an opportunity to truly let loose, reserving some time in one of those trendy smash rooms. These cathartic attractions have sprung up all over the country in recent years, allowing patrons to blow off some steam by breaking old appliances, electronics, and sometimes cars. Not sure breaking stuff is your sweetheart’s thing? Consider taking them ax throwing instead. Remember to have dinner reservations ready for when you wrap up, as you’ll both have worked up quite the appetite.

As a Venus-ruled sign, Libras don’t need an occasion like Valentine’s Day to be in the mood for romance. They require meaningful dates throughout the year in order to feel seen and appreciated by their partner. Rather than pulling out all the stops to bring even more extravagance to your candlelight dinners, consider looking for ways to make memories that will last for years to come.

A joint photo shoot is the perfect way to treat your sweetheart, giving them a day of connection, cuddles, and the perfect souvenir to remember it by. Up the ante by surprising them with a new outfit to mark the occasion, coordinating your ensembles to complement each other. At the end of the day, give them a frame that matches their aesthetic, filling it with your favorite photo from the session.

Scorpio is the sign of death and rebirth, inspiring a strange adoration for all things spooky. Scorpios love secrets, venturing into the unknown, and exploring forgotten corners of the world, which means you may need to do some digging if you want to plan the perfect date.

Research local attractions, homing in on historic cemeteries, underground tunnels, nearby caves, and ghost tours. Your favorite scorpion will be enthralled by your thoughtfulness, and the lingering sense that something could jump out of the shadows will inspire them to hold onto you extra tightly. Grab some yummy takeout on the way home, light a few candles, then cozy up on the couch with your favorite scary movie.

Sagittarians are all about grand adventures, constantly looking for ways to broaden their horizons and collection of experiences. They are known as the philosophers of the zodiac, and this fire sign is always up for spontaneous escapades and deep talks late into the night. Pair two of your beloved archer’s favorite activities, surprising them with a Valentine’s Day under the stars.

Treat your sweetie to an early dinner before hitting the road with a few blankets, flashlights, and beverages. Head out of town with no particular destination in mind, opting instead to take on the adventure as it comes. Explore off the beaten path until you find the perfect place to spread out and watch the sky. You may also want to download a stargazing app on your phone so that you and your other half can identify the various planets and constellations suspended overhead. Don’t forget to kiss whenever you spot a shooting star.

Capricorns are some of the most stable and reliable companions out there, always going above and beyond to make sure the relationship feels secure and protected. They’re extremely success oriented and take pleasure in moments of extravagance as a way to forget about work.

Show your favorite sea goat just how much you care by booking a suite at the most elegant hotel your budget will permit. Allow them to take the back seat for once by offering to drive, while also making arrangements for cocktails on the roof bar followed by a romantic dinner. If you’re feeling extra generous, be sure to add spa time to your agenda on this glamorous staycation.

Known as the lovable oddballs of the zodiac, Aquarians are all about embracing their inner weirdness and having a good time. However, this bighearted air sign also has a strong connection to the idea of community and appreciating one’s surroundings, making a tour of your own city the perfect way to celebrate Valentine’s Day.

Fill your agenda with visits to oddity shops, antique stores, and perhaps the science museum, taking special care to throw in a few stops that neither of you has explored before. If you’ve been compiling a list of restaurants to try, start crossing them off your list as you fuel up between destinations. Try to deviate from traditional topics as the hours pass, and consider researching recent scientific or archaeological discoveries in order to impress their intellectual mind.

Though they’re often accused of being wide-eyed dreamers, Pisces are some of the most nurturing and compassionate members of the zodiac, loving their partner on a cellular level. Blessed with a whimsical nature and brilliant imagination, they have a natural adoration for the arts, mysticism, and meditation.

Immersive experiences such as float tanks, escape rooms, and sensory art exhibits are all great ways to impress that special fish in your life, taking them out of the real world and into a land of fantasy. Cap off the date with a delicious meal, and consider stopping for a psychic reading on the way home, asking what the fates have in store for you both.

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Renée Watt is a Pacific Northwest-based professional psychic, astrologer, and witch. Her mystical insights have been featured in Vogue, Cosmopolitan, and InStyle. She hosts the weekly podcast The Glitter Cast, which features celebrity ghost stories and interviews with leading professionals in her field.

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