While the last couple of years have felt fleeting for holiday fashion moments, we’re beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Sure, you might have party looks from pre-pandemic that still have tags on them, but who doesn’t want some of that “new new”? We are all ready to start fresh, and this month will certainly ring in the holiday revelry.

Lucky for us, the fashion industry is locked and loaded with the most fabulous options. As a fashion stylist, I am used to meeting the demands of a multitude of clients’ event-specific wardrobe needs; the holidays are no different. So, I’m here to offer you the inspiration you need to make it through any holiday fashion crisis.


Look #1

party look 1
Alexander McQueen black blazer, La Perla black lace camisole, Balenciaga black leather skirt, Larroudé Dolly Sandal in Gray Dolly Crystal Heel, Brandon Blackwood NYC shearling bag in hot pink, Svelte Metals silver choker and silver hoop earring, Bea Bongiasca ring, Amina Muaddi embellished tights
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Strong and sleek, black on black is always a winner. As holiday invitations start to roll in, ensembles such as this one are safe and certainly appropriate, but they can also be strong and impactful. An unexpected pop of color in your handbag becomes the pièce de résistance of the whole look, while the modern, clean silver jewelry and a platform heel give off an effortless essence. The detail and design of each piece — like the structured shoulder and defined waist of the incomparable Alexander McQueen blazer and cool printed tights — set this sable situation afire.

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Black Blazer
Black Blazer
Shop at Aritzia
Credit: Aritzia
Midi Skirt
Midi Skirt
Credit: Nordstrom
Silver Platform Heels
Silver Platform Heels
Credit: Saks Fifth Avenue
Beaded-Strap Bag
Beaded-Strap Bag
Credit: Neiman Marcus

Look #2

party look 2
AZ Factory blue skirt suit, Alix deep v black bodysuit, Bottega Veneta mini gold pouch, Brother Vellies Paloma Sandal in black, Harwell Godfrey gold and multicolored pendant necklace and ring
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This look is perfect for a work holiday party as it fulfills the workday-to-work “play” moment. Nothing says, “I command the room,” like a bright-blue, ultra-flattering skirt suit. Add va-va-voom with a plunging neckline bodysuit by Alix, decorated with bold and colorful pendants by Harwell Godfrey, and a shiny, metallic mini pouch by Bottega Veneta. Everyone will want to know where you got your suit and when your promotion is happening — because, obviously, they got the memo. This look takes “dress to impress” to another level.

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Bold Blue Blazer
Bold Blue Blazer
Credit: Nordstrom
Turtleneck Bodysuit
Turtleneck Bodysuit
Credit: Revolve
Diamond Circle Ring
Diamond Circle Ring
Credit: Mejuri
Black High Heels
Black High Heels
Credit: Betsy Johnson

Look #3

party look 3
Galvan leopard knit dress, Valentino roman stud pump in black and gold, Thom Browne black and gold quilted caviar bag, Cuyana black cashmere Long Wrap Coat, Jennifer Fisher Gold Triple Lilly Hoops
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Leopard is my favorite “neutral”; its natural edge makes heads turn every single time. Galvan has made quite literally the perfect leopard knit dress, and it deserves center stage, but we mustn’t forget the accessories, which are like very important backup singers. A Roman stud pump is edgy and cool, and the Thom Browne quilted caviar bag is a conversation piece in and of itself. This look could work well at your best friend’s white-elephant exchange or at a holiday cocktail party at the hot new wine bar down the street.

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Wrap Coat
Wrap Coat
Credit: Nordstrom
Hoop Earrings
Hoop Earrings
Credit: Ana Luisa
Leopard Dress
Leopard Dress
Credit: Reformation
Leather Shoulder Bag
Leather Shoulder Bag
Credit: Saks Fifth Avenue

Look #4

party look 4
Sergio Hudson full length swing coat in b/w giraffe print, Dolce & Gabbana bustier black body con dress, Monroe NYC black fedora hat, Emily P Wheeler conch pearl earrings, Alexander McQueen envelope bag in black leather
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Body con might not be in everyone’s comfort zone, but today’s designers understand that a good Lycra, built-in bustier can change everything. If wearing a body-con dress by itself has you feeling too revealed, a stand-alone coat will allow you to walk into that holiday soiree with fashion bravado. Black-and-white prints meld perfectly with colorful baubles earrings, so don’t hold back: More is more. Holiday events can often be burdened by bad weather, but that shouldn’t keep you from bringing your A game. Good hair matters, folks, so a smart fedora solves all of our coiffure anxieties.

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Black Cocktail Dress
Black Cocktail Dress
Credit: Nordstrom
Linen Canvas Coat
Linen Canvas Coat
Credit: Shopbop
Pearl Drop Earrings
Pearl Drop Earrings
Credit: Neiman Marcus
Wide-Brim Fedora
Wide-Brim Fedora
Credit: Saks Off 5th

Look #5

party look 5
A.L.C. Brielle Velvet Open Back Dress in black, Balmain B Buzz bag in orange, The Attico Zebra pump (farfetch), Monica Vinader Nura Pearl and gold wire earrings
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Nothing says holiday like velvet. This velvet high-neck, open-back dress is a holiday black-tie party jaw-dropper. Accessorizing with animal print and pops of color helps you own that formal moment with panache. Zebra and bright orange might not be a common combo in your wardrobe arsenal, but, honestly, why aren’t they? They take this velvet number to the next level. A standard pearl earring would be too sweet, but Monica Vinader adds gold wire and an imperfect shape to modernize the vibe.

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Velvet Midi Dress
Velvet Midi Dress
Credit: Reiss
Patterned Pumps
Patterned Pumps
Credit: Macy's
Leather Crossbody Bag
Leather Crossbody Bag
Credit: Sak's Fifth Avenue
Pearl Wire Earrings
Pearl Wire Earrings
Credit: Monica Vinader

We sincerely hope you walk away from this fashion briefing with some good ideas for what lies ahead, but, when all else fails, remember to wear all of the things while you can. If we’ve learned anything over the last couple of years, it’s that we must live in the moment and not save that dress, that pump, that diamond necklace for a rainy day. This holiday season is begging you to go big or go home!


Mary Gonsalves Kinney is the CEO and Founder of her fashion styling company MGK STYLE with clients in Sacramento, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, Seattle, Chicago, New York and D.C. Mary has been noted as the top stylist in the region and boasts a client list that is high profile, diverse and based almost entirely on referral.

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